Attraction

There are many millions of things in this world that I am afraid I will never understand. I believe one of those things to be attraction. Why are certain people attracted to other kinds of people? Why are we all drawn to certain characteristics in people of the opposite (or same) sex? Is it just a natural instinct to be attracted to someone who is in better shape or may look better than others because we want to pass on good genes? Could it be that people like others that are more aesthetically pleasing just for the luxury? Why do we all like certain things? And why are we also sometime attracted to the exact opposite of what we are? I think at least some of the reason for this is excitement and thrill. I believe most of us don’t like to be with someone who is exactly like us. This takes away some (or a lot) of the excitement. If you had everything in common you really wouldn’t have anything to talk about. For example, I am a dancer and I have dated other dancers in the past and found it much less exciting talking about anything that even remotely related to dance with them. I much prefer telling someone about dance who doesn’t know that much about it, I prefer it even though they might not appreciate how many awards i’ve won or my accomplishments. I believe they will look at it with an eye not tainted by bias or/and an annoying large amount of knowledge about dance. I think that’s what we all want. We all want a someone like a very complicated and amazing book. Once we have it and have read it we understand it for the most part but we keep finding new things through out the book that keeps us coming back for more. Now feel free to correct me if I’m wrong, but I think we all want a little spontaneity in life.